On October 3, our community gathered at the Dole Mansion in Crystal Lake with grateful hearts and a shared commitment: McHenry County’s fallen heroes will never be forgotten.
The Blue Star Banner Program was honored to sponsor the nation’s first Gold Star Remembrance Day Ceremony, paying tribute to 293 courageous service members from McHenry County who gave their lives in World War I, World War II, Korea, Vietnam, Iraq, and Afghanistan.
The day was filled with moments of reflection and reverence. The 484th Army Band Woodwind Ensemble provided moving musical selections, and Lisa Rock’s stirring rendition of the National Anthem set a solemn tone. Guests also learned about the profound significance of the Missing Man Table and the Gold Star—enduring symbols of sacrifice, service, and a family’s lasting love.
Gold Star Mother and TEDx Talk Story Coach Holly Higgins shared the story of her son, U.S. Air Force Senior Airman Daniel James Johnson, who was killed in action in Afghanistan in 2010. Her words offered a deeply personal reminder that behind every name is a beloved son or daughter, family member, friend, and neighbor whose absence is felt forever.
One of the ceremony’s most meaningful moments was the unveiling of the McHenry County Gold Star Flag, bearing one star for each fallen hero. Mayors and community representatives then read the names of those lost from their cities, ensuring that every service member was heard, honored, and remembered. This solemn remembrance reflects a powerful truth: “A soldier dies twice: first when they lose their life, and again when their name is spoken for the last time.”
The ceremony concluded with a solemn retirement of the colors by the U.S. Marine Corps, followed by Army 1st Sgt. Kyle Berens playing TAPS and bagpiper Frenandi Urquidi performing “Amazing Grace.”
Crystal Lake Mayor Haig Haliblain proclaimed Crystal Lake a Gold Star Community and officially recognized October 3 as Gold Star Remembrance Day—an enduring pledge to honor the fallen and to stand beside the families who carry their legacy forward.
Hosted in partnership with American Legion Posts 171, 265, and 0606; Galvanized Iron; the McHenry Marine Corps League; Service Flag Traditions; and the Veterans Network Association, the ceremony reflected a community united in remembrance, gratitude, and respect.
The event was inspired by the vision of Mark Hutson, who created the McHenry County Gold Star Legacies website to preserve the stories of each fallen service member with dignity and care. By speaking their names, sharing their stories, and honoring the sacrifice they made, we help ensure their legacies live on for generations to come.
